breaking up with someone you loved and cared about can be very difficult physically and mentally. And as woke as the internet and its users claim to be, some parts of this phase don’t get talked about enough. There is more to it than meets the eye. When breakups occur, it’s more than two people no longer being in a relationship, it’s a change of routines, a change of wants and sometimes needs, and a change in habits. It’s a lot! So let’s talk about those aspects of this process that are normally kept under wraps.  1. The “what ifs” phase:  Just like the name goes “what if” is the point you begin to ask yourself questions and seek answers, you think of where you would have done better or worst, and you begin to find answers, these might be in form of the closure conversation you have with your partner or the questions you begin to ask friends. 2. Reminder phase:  This is the phase where you are constantly reminded of them. I don’t know if it’s just me, but when I mi...

 We all have at one point in our lives altered a decision or done something out of the opinions of others. Not saying considering others' opinions is bad, in fact, in most cases, it is very advisable but in cases where those opinions become detrimental to you, your decisions, and your life choices, then it becomes a problem.  A friend of mine was brainwashed into studying a particular course at the university hence directing him to a different career path from the one he would so much love to head. He did well in school and excelled in that discipline but he was still very much unhappy with what he was doing, long story cut short he took the bull by the horn and changed his discipline during his master’s studies which weren't rosy but the outcome was worth the stress. Just like this my friend many people have been through comparable circumstances. You can get back your stand and do whatever you know is best for you and whatever you want to do. And this is how you can go about ...

 First off before I start my 1000+ words of undiluted sarcastic rants I want to put it out there that Nysc Camp is The Ghetto! With a capital G!! sho get?.  Ok now that I have given you a preamble I can now begin the rants *takes a deep breath*  so to get the whole idea behind this scheme, we ought to go back to the beginning of it all. NYSC is an acronym of NATIONAL YOUTH SERVICE CORP a paramilitary scheme set up by Gen Yakubu Gowan on 22nd May 1973, this scheme was designed as a means to promote post-conflict peace in Nigeria after the Nigeria Civil war that took place between 1967-1970. After the war there was said to be this fear amongst civilians, there was no inter state travels, people had no interest in leaving their states, local governments and villages, a fear which is very understandable when you look at how brutal the civil war was and how the war was not just a military and civilian war but an inter-tribal war.  The Yakubu Gowen administration came up w...

Growing a business can be very tasking and exhausting to say the least. But lately digital marketing and internet marketing have made things a little less stressful but also very demanding, yes very demanding and small scale business owners can find this very relatable. Look at it this way, the internet is a big market place and everything you ever think of buying or selling is in this market place, how do you stand out and grow your shop, your customer base and your profit amongst all the other competitors?. There are proven ways this could be done and not to be afraid they are very easy and mostly at your beck and call. 1. Having a social media presence. I think by now it’s no news how powerful social media has become in our world today. There is literally nothing you can’t get through social media and when I say nothing, growing your business is no exemption. Every big brand today have a social media presence. fashionova, Huda beauty,Nike etc all have a social media page across almo...

Have you ever been on a BAD DATE? Can you recall what went wrong? Or have you been on a date and Midway or after the date, you tell yourself   I'm never seeing this person again?.. well i need not get the answers from you because I know for a fact that majority have. I ran a personal survey and the results showed that most bad dates are usually the first dates and that goes to say many people don't create the best impression on the first date.  Creating the best impressions on a first date is so important for both parties because it takes two to tango, if one party ruins the date the possibilities of a second date is very slim.   In this article I'll be focusing on things a lady shouldn't do on a first date. Most times ladies tend to do the complaining without knowing they also fault in these situations.  The following are the dos and don't of a lady on a first date. 1. Don't go late This is a bit controversial but the truth must be said. Going late for a ...

 Fashion fashion fashion!!! The most relevant term since the beginning of time. There's nobody that doesn't want to look good and be told they look good, personally I relate so deeply to this saying 'I'm nicer when I like my outfit" because there's this feeling of content, confidence and fancy that comes with looking good and I'm sure you can relate too.   Styling an outfit to look fashionable can be nerve wrecking even the most fashionable person with all the fashionable clothing items have those "I don't know what to wear" days so it's normal. Fashion is all about putting different clothing items together to make one fabulous look. As simple as that sounds, to most persons it's not all roses and peaches, that is why celebrities hire stylist,wardrobe managers and designers to coordinate their outfit of choice. Not to worry you don't have to be a celebrity, hire a stylist, break the bank or even have the most clothes to pull up a f...