Have you ever been so excited to be at a gathering and when you finally get there, you feel unnoticed like you don't belong or you're being ignored?  This is a very common occurrence, it happens to the best of us. Shifting the attention and energy in a gathering to be favorable to you can do a lot for you. It helps boost your confidence, reduces anxiety and fidgeting, it also leaves a remarkable memory of you in others, it's a way of pitching yourself and your brand to a group of people without saying or doing too much and it gives you a sense of relevance that most times end up being in your favor. So how do you bend the attention in a room to be in your favor?  There are a couple of things that can give you momentum for this 1. Appearance  Appearance is key to almost everything, it is almost impossible for people to forget what others wear. And we know the popular quote “ you are addressed the way you dress”  always look presentable and good, it does a lot to your ...